On February 25, a weekly meeting of the psychologist at the Trust center Yatsenko Marina with future newlyweds was held in the Kirov department of the registry office of Kazan
It was about parenthood. Each woman, choosing the man of her dreams, hopes that in the future her chosen one will be the same gentle, caring, loving father of her children. Parenthood is a natural continuation of the family union, but statistics show that after the birth of the first-born, 69% of spouses are not satisfied with their family life.
According to Yatsenko Marina, the practice of counseling couples shows that there are many reasons for this, but there is a common thing - these are different views on family responsibilities. Many, entering into marriage, are sure that everything will be equally in their family, everything will be done together. But life makes its own adjustments to these expectations. Young dads, tired at work, want a family vacation, and mothers expect help from them. Of course, dads love their children with all their hearts, but as practice shows, until mom intervenes with the advice.
The psychologist shared the main conclusion: «Needless to say, such a command quickly kills the young dad’s desire to do something with the child and reduces his love for five-minute hugs. Therefore, if you want sincere help from your husbands, then let them do their part of the duties as they wish. Believe that even in the inept hands of a loving dad, nothing bad will happen to a child».